Adela's Story-- Myoclonic Epilepsy
What has been your biggest challenge, either through high school or college in terms of your Neurodiversity or disability?
Managing school has its problems, but in the end, I have figured out my triggers and have managed to have a great experience in my Master's program at UCLA! I am photosensitive, so I have special glasses to handle the bright lights and screens. My biggest trigger is sleep, so I need to make sure I am on a good sleep schedule and not plan for long school days. I also work, but only part-time. I can't overwhelm myself too much! In regards to social situation, I find telling people isn't necessarily the problem - its them truly understanding what epilepsy is and how it affects my body. Exercise is another big trigger for me, so there is alot I can't partake in or it becomes hard to keep up with people with things like hikes, amusement parks, etc.
What has helped you over the years?
I have a super supportive system in my friends and family so that has played a major role in my self care. Also, learning to find my own voice and advocate for myself when needed, and also, building boundaries has been a tremendous step for me!
What do you wish existed for Neurodivergent/disabled girls?
Media often portrays mental health through female characters in a very inaccurate way, making them look "hysterical." And also, I feel that they can take a female's sensuality away from a disabled female character. These are ongoing bias that haven't really been challenged and I wish better representation and awareness was there for those who needed it. It is definitely something that we need desperately today.
Is there anything else you would like to share?
One last note, I was fired from my job for having epilepsy, but it was the best thing that happened. If I wasn't, I would of never gone to UCLA, and attending school has opened so many doors for me that just working at that job could never.
